The toxic crises facing men

I consider myself a liberal feminist. But I gave birth to three boys and am married to a good man, and I’ve observed that our culture hurts men just as much as it hurts women.

I’m not sure when I had my first exposure to toxic masculinity (as compared to healthy masculinity) as a parent. Maybe it was when my first kid came home from kindergarten and said that another boy called him a gay-related slur because he…